As a nurse leader, have you ever found yourself frustrated, feeling like the only way to get your team to perform is by resorting to disciplinary action? I certainly have. In the early days of my managerial career, I held the belief that authority alone should command respect and compliance. But over time, I've come to realize that the issue often lies not with the team, but with the leadership approach itself.

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that writing people up or resorting to punitive measures is the most effective way to manage a team. After all, rules are in place for a reason, and it's our responsibility as leaders to ensure they are followed. However, what I failed to understand initially was that true leadership extends far beyond enforcing rules—it's about fostering an environment where individuals feel valued, motivated, and supported.

The realization dawned on me gradually, through both trial and error and self-reflection. I noticed that simply asserting my authority did little to inspire genuine commitment from my team members. Instead, it created an atmosphere of tension and apprehension, where employees were more concerned about avoiding reprimand than striving for excellence in their work.

It wasn't until I shifted my perspective and began viewing my team not as subordinates, but as professionals deserving of respect and autonomy, that I started to see real progress. I made a conscious effort to build authentic relationships with each member of my team, taking the time to listen to their concerns, understand their perspectives, and acknowledge their contributions.

This shift in approach had a transformative effect on our team dynamics. By prioritizing empathy and understanding, I cultivated a culture of trust and collaboration, where individuals felt empowered to take ownership of their work and contribute their unique skills and insights. Rather than relying on punitive measures to enforce compliance, I found that by nurturing a sense of shared purpose and mutual respect, my team became more motivated, engaged, and committed to achieving our collective goals.

Of course, this journey hasn't been without its challenges. It required humility to recognize that my previous approach was not serving the best interests of my team or the organization as a whole. It also demanded patience and perseverance to build meaningful relationships and overcome existing barriers to communication and trust.

But the rewards have been immeasurable. Not only have I witnessed a significant improvement in team performance and morale, but I've also experienced a profound personal fulfillment in knowing that I am leading in a way that aligns with my values and beliefs.